After many years of connecting with those who have passed, I have learned so much about what happens after we leave our physical bodies—and, most importantly, about the love that continues between us and those we have lost. The words that follow reflect some of the most comforting truths I have come to understand through this work. My hope is that they bring you peace, reassure you that your loved ones are okay, and remind you that although you may no longer see them, they have not truly left you. Love continues. Connection continues. Life continues.
Life Continues
You may not see your loved ones,
but they are able to see you.
You may not hear their precious voices,
but they are speaking to you
in your thoughts all the time.
You may long to know if they are okay,
but there’s no need to worry,
because they are in a state of total bliss.
You may believe you didn’t have enough time
to spend with them,
but they can now be with you
whenever they so desire.
You may not realize when they are around you,
but they are sending you
“without a doubt” signs all the time.
You may be worried that they are still in pain,
but they are in a place of total peace,
where suffering doesn’t exist.
You may not comprehend
why everything happened the way it did,
but they are able to see the “bigger perspective”
and understand it all perfectly.
You may think that they left this earth way too soon,
but they know it was their time
to make their transition.
You may feel guilty about certain things
you did or didn’t do,
but they are able to see through your eyes
and understand your actions completely,
with no judgment.
You may be preoccupied with how they died,
but they want you to remember
how they lived.
You may be hesitant about moving on with your life,
but they want you to step forward
and be happy again.
You may believe that you will never see them again,
but you will join them again,
many years from now,
when you leave your physical body.
You may feel that a part of you died
after they made their transition,
but in reality—
Life continues for both of you.
From Your Life After Their Death:
A Medium’s Guide to Healing After a Loss